My son is dating the wrong girl
That’s the old I’m-not-a-racist-but-everyone-else-is dodge. I mean, you’ve had over 20 years with the guy; I find it hard to believe there’s been no indication this was coming.At the same time, though, one’s own children and their choices can test our beliefs with a force that little else can. You have to do better than “because they are” if you want him to do better than “uncomfortable feelings.” Ask him how he’d feel if a woman’s parents saw your son as an inferior match for their daughter based on his skin color alone.Again, no ethical barriers here, just nothing illegal. I've been a straight arrow my whole life, and my son has no idea how I or the rest of the family feels about this woman.We've included her in all family events and have been very generous with her on her birthday and Christmas.), the movie holds some truth about the female mystique.Women do a lot of things that drive men away, even when sometimes they are just being their high-strung, neurotic selves.You need someone to make you feel happy or fill that gap inside of yourself.
When he asks why his feelings are wrong, what can I say besides, “Because they are”? Dear What: His view is immoral on its face to anyone who believes foremost that humans of all shapes, sizes and colors are of equal worth and deserve to be *reflexively* accepted and treated as such.Every “bad” relationship will get you one step closer to one that works. Trying to save her This is a big issue for men, especially the “nice” ones.